This amazing feeling
It's amazing how 2 different persons come together to make things happen. Be it's their first time in love or not, every thing that these 2 persons does is still considered the first to them.
First step of knowing each other
First try to understand each other
First time to miss each other
First time to want to hold each other
First time to want to be there for each other
First desire to be close to each other
How amazing when 2 different who doesn't know each other in the beginning, start to be attracted to each other. The process of working out the differences that might have caused anger, frustrations, heartache and even dislike for each other for a moment. But when things ultimately resolve, differences becomes a conductor for the 2 persons to draw close to one another and fall in love with each other. However, for this to happen, it takes 2 secure persons who know who they are, their identity and it also takes love and patience, and very important, understanding.
For insecure persons, lacking of trust for people, it will have been very difficult to work things out since every thing is veered towards the negative.
What is takes for a wedding and what it takes for a marriage to work? Why do people fall in love with someone different from themselves?
It's amazing. Though this may seem idealistic, but I also believe God wanted every marriage to be this way. His very intention was to have 2 different persons, loving each other - one to lead and the other to help.
The sinful and selfish nature of man changes every thing. Every one wants the best for themselves now, want to protect themselves - every consideration is about themselves first.
Maybe that's why divorce rates are up, I guess. Just like in Christ we have our first love, in every marriage there is a first love too. Each couple has to find their first love for each other, and refocus on their vision for their marriage.
First step of knowing each other
First try to understand each other
First time to miss each other
First time to want to hold each other
First time to want to be there for each other
First desire to be close to each other
How amazing when 2 different who doesn't know each other in the beginning, start to be attracted to each other. The process of working out the differences that might have caused anger, frustrations, heartache and even dislike for each other for a moment. But when things ultimately resolve, differences becomes a conductor for the 2 persons to draw close to one another and fall in love with each other. However, for this to happen, it takes 2 secure persons who know who they are, their identity and it also takes love and patience, and very important, understanding.
For insecure persons, lacking of trust for people, it will have been very difficult to work things out since every thing is veered towards the negative.
What is takes for a wedding and what it takes for a marriage to work? Why do people fall in love with someone different from themselves?
It's amazing. Though this may seem idealistic, but I also believe God wanted every marriage to be this way. His very intention was to have 2 different persons, loving each other - one to lead and the other to help.
The sinful and selfish nature of man changes every thing. Every one wants the best for themselves now, want to protect themselves - every consideration is about themselves first.
Maybe that's why divorce rates are up, I guess. Just like in Christ we have our first love, in every marriage there is a first love too. Each couple has to find their first love for each other, and refocus on their vision for their marriage.
